Someone is always missing

This week as Mother's day approaches, I am reflecting on my boys and the milestones that their dad is missing. The first big one was our...

How to carry a hole

"Carrying a Hole" - its an oxymoron. How does one carry a hole? Usually when we think of carrying something we think of carrying weight,...

How to not say the wrong thing

Attached is an article about the ring theory of grief. I first came across it years ago and it "rang" (pardon the pun) true then as...

On being a widow

Widow is a strong word. It evokes images of helplessness, old lady, hag, crone, sadness, black clothes. It does not make you think of a...